I was talking to my sister today about this situation that occurred between my best friend, her sister, and myself. I'd love to tell the whole story, however, that would be extremely to long and it might confuse you all. Sooooo, long story short.. I def learned a lesson today..
3 values to live by:
*there are principals that we as people should learn, understand, and follow.
*there are people who will be in your life for a second, a minute, and an hour.
*there are 3 types of people you will come across.. your reason, your season, and your life time.
I've learned that no matter how long a friendship has been, there is always be an end to the fun. I have learned that no matter what the situation is at hand, you always need to be the bigger person. I have also learned that, you know who your true friends are when you come into a situation and it isn't handled correctly, a person cannot sit down and talk to you one on one like a young adult & if there is a person (or persons) that cannot complete the task at hand, then they just weren't meant to be in your life & the friendship isn't worth fighting for. I will never beg for a friendship (keep in mind) however, I WILL fight for one when I believe it's truly worth it. Just thought to add this as well, you will find strength each time you cry, & life is like a car you have your side mirrors to keep you from getting into "accidents", you have your seat belt to keep you safe, & lastly you have your rear view. With your rear view you are allowed to look back: but only for a second at a time, because if you dwell on the past (whats behind you) you will not be able to steer straight and keep focus on whats in front of you.
WORDs OF THE DAY:
PRINCIPLE
noun, : guiding sense of the requirements and obligations of right conduct: a person of principle
FRIENDSHIP
noun, : the state of being a friend; association as friends: to value a person's friendship.
LOYALTY
noun, : the state or quality of being loyal; faithfulness to commitments or obligations
RESPECT
noun, : esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability: I have great respect for her judgment.
HONESTY
noun, : the quality or fact of being honest; uprightness and fairness.
truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness
noun, : the quality or fact of being honest; uprightness and fairness.
truthfulness, sincerity, or frankness
until next time..
~peace&love~
7 comments:
love love love that post.
"I have learned that no matter what the situation is at hand, you always need to be the bigger person." preach! As much as i hate being the bigger person I ALWAYS HAVE TO BE for some reason. and i agree w/ friendships im not begging for shit but if its worth it i wil fight as well.
the life is like a car quote.. DEEP. i'll be quoting that one.
great post.
-i had to highlight your words. its super pale & hard to read. heads up.
hehe thanks girl. yeah being the bigger person can be a liddle challenging however it is what it is & yu never want to stoop to someone elses level. especially when theyre below you because of their actions.. thanks for the comment and the heads up hope this color is better.. thanks love..
My favorite word of the day has to be "loyalty". You hardly see it anymore and Its almost extinct. In desperate situations people stab each other in the back with out even thinking about it. We are like dogs, playful until you throw a bone between them.Thew its a battle and you"ll doing anything to get what you want.
Loyalty right now is almost Blackmail ,fear, or the only option. If you make somebody depend on you then they cant help but be loyal to you because they need you. But is that really a good thing. Whatever happen to loyalty because of love for that person? There is alot of love out there but its slowly losing itself. People mistake love for control. Idk i could talk about this forever,but i really liked your blog. I would definitely fight for a friendship that's worth it and cut them out if its not.
It's sad whenever a friendship ends but sometimes it's for the best ;)
*cold fog* i agree with your comment. and i greatly appreciate it.
*tuotierugif* i also appreciate your comment. yeah this may be for the best. only time will tell.
thanks for sharing your thoughts, its greatly appreciated!
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thank you love. i appreciate it!
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